Have you ever wondered how different your life would have been if you knew then what you know now. I can easily say that my life would have been soooo different and much less painful. Life is not always easy and unfortunately we do not get an instruction book when we are born. We learn from our mistakes, from our parents, teachers and peer groups…etc. During our life journey, we do hit couple of brick walls, stumble over big or small obstacles and sometime we get the necessary messages and grow however sometimes we don’t get the messages and we struggle.
Wouldn’t it be nice that when we were young and so innocent, people who have the right skills and experience explain to us what life is about and what we need to do to handle certain experiences, obstacles and our emotions. Everybody born with an emotional support system but instead of listening and understanding them, we tend to ignore our emotions or we shut down our feelings or completely misinterpret the messages. These will cause low self-esteem, our health and our happiness in the long term. I strongly believe that as an adult we should take responsibility to teach our children certain life skills and tools which will then help them to be confident, happy and fulfilled individual. The children are our future, without teaching our children the right skills and tools how can we ensure that future will be bright and appealing? Personal development teaches us how to create a lasting change within ourselves and others and help us to achieve our goals and desired life style. Just like trees, we need strong roots that hold us steady during the most horrendous storms. If we gain strong and healthy roots during our childhood, we will produce the best fruits and stand strong against the difficult conditions that we might face during our lives.
Personal development starts with understanding yourself, knowing your core values, your beliefs and understanding your passion. When we are young, they are apparent, however, due to certain upbringings and experiences, we forget them until we start refocusing them again. Sometimes it is hard to go back and dig them out as we collect so much baggage over the years. Imagine if you are 7 years old and an expert sits down with you and goes through your values, your beliefs, your passions and teaches you all the tools and skill sets to overcome any obstacles you might encounter in your journey to happiness and fulfilment. You will know exactly who you are, where you are going and what you need to do to get there. Wouldn’t it be nice! I am that expert; I am passionate about teaching children self-development skills and tools so that they grow up to be happy and confident individuals. I am offering many tools for confidence, peace, happiness and life time fulfilment.